New Year, New Decisions
Hello My Companion,
With the first blog post of 2022, let’s have a little chat. I had been with you with these blog posts for a year.
Let’s do a situation analysis right after we enter the year 2022 with new decisions. Everyone has a story. You have a story, too. You have changed a lot because of what happened to you last year.
Everyone is changing, right?
So don’t judge anyone based on how you know them. You are not the same you, too. I have always been a companion for you in my posts so that you can see your own way, determine your path, find direction, and move forward with your inner motivation, and I am writing to you regarding the point we have reached in these passing days of the new year.
You can go back with intention and read my blog posts by choosing them to be a guide for the information, needing to be realized. Come on, let’s sit on a bench, rest and talk!
Until now, I asked you to take matters of your life seriously. I wanted for you to take responsibility for yourself and move forward towards success. I have always wanted you to move forward depending on yourself so that you can live your life to the fullest. I stood by you by saying, THE FUTURE STARTS TODAY, with all my knowledge and experience, so that you can make the most of it as much as possible.
The Future Starts Today
Now imagine a guest who wants to come to your house. Your house is a mess, and you are at a time when you are not ready to organize your house at all. This guest is a guest that you have been waiting for a long time, that you want to host and you cannot just say “you shouldn’t come“.
All of a sudden, quickly and rather sloppily, you are tidying up your house but you are not even prepared to welcome him, and you are not satisfied with anything. You say, “I am sorry, the house is a mess, but…“, it’s going to be a tense experience for the guest. The real issue starts after saying goodbye. “I wonder what he thought, did he see the dust in the window, I could see from his eyes, I am sure it was like this, or like that, I wish the he hadn’t gone to the bathroom…!”
- What guest has life sent you in 2021?
- What opportunities were you not ready for on the way to your dreams?
- How did you let the surprise developments you wished for into your life?
- What happened then?
- What would you like to be different in this year of 2022?
- How will you be ready this time?
- How will you and your house be ready to welcome, host, and see off those guests you want so much?
Being ready for the expected guest, not the unexpected…
Please reconsider this past year you have experienced. The key to your entire journey is being grateful for your experiences. What did you experience during the year 2021? Focus on the core potential that exists in the present. You are on a journey where you are developing your individual talents in your own way. As long as you work in the right field for you, life is beside you with its opportunities!
Have you learned to focus on yourself without trying to be the gardener of other people’s gardens or interfering and saying “if you planted this in your garden, painted your hedges blue, this would look good on this garden, this one would look more elegant on this side, your flowers faded, …”? Did you get rid of these thoughts that you did not express but harbored in your mind?
- Have you moved away from ideas that will create a crisis in the short or long term?
- Have you noticed your strengths and transformed them to use?
- Do you see your target with the arrow you will take your bow and shoot?
- Did your hands tremble the first time you picked up your arrow for your conscious goals?
- Have you experienced that state of panic?
- Have you noticed the chances given to the source of your essence as you mastered your emotions?
Was Caesar’s credit given to Caesar?
Can you say, now I understand why I went through what I went through?
Has everything fallen into place?
When you start to interpret yourself, all the processes you experience become meaningful. You become a true strategist when you identify ways of self-realization, self-renewal, self-advancement, and uplifting yourself.
I want to remind you of something you know, my companion, how much of the flow can you control? Rest assured my companion, you can only control the amount, you cannot go beyond, and when you accept this fact, you discover to surrender to the flow, but to direct the flow. Let it flow a little, but strengthen yourself in the process.
Realize what kind of period you are in. The fights you have within yourself will not move you forward. The fights you have with others will not move you forward. Remember; facing the facts gives you a sense of victory, you start to feel stronger and better when you feel like you are being dragged into a disaster.
Are you ready to open yourself up to receive?
Life will always give you potatoes, but please don’t try to eat them raw. Decide what you will do with them. Maybe it doesn’t look like anything at first. You bite, and it’s sandy-starchy, a strange thing. “It is some -THING-!” but what you do with that thing and how you do it is up to you.
What to do with a potato?
How do to it?
Which one of these would you be happy to choose?
Make sure you want what you want with all your heart! If it stubbornly causes you to focus all your attention there, if you cannot focus your attention on anything else, if it keeps you from your own life, your own life path, from yourself, that’s not what you want in your heart. It’s just something you want with your mind. As I mentioned in the book The Future Starts Today, DO YOU KNOW YOUR MIND?
Does your mind really belong to you?
By focusing your peaceful, surrendering heart on the conditions, you can manage to throw those pebbles out of your mind. You can make your mind become more calm and serene.
Life opens the door of knowledge to the bee, and it builds its house out of honey.
Get the experience, get the material, and get on with the construction process! Do not miss the process when you are thinking about reaching the final end!
How do you get out of the existing process?
What does your inner voice tell you?
What you fear to kill or end are your patterns!
Events that you think belong to you are the walls of action you put yourself while trying to protect your wounds, trying to protect your resentment and brokenness, To these action walls, the ones you say “I am fine, I am not offended by you, everything is fine, there is no problem, it’s okay, no need for you, I will take care of this.” are included.
- So, I am asking, why did you have to take care of what you said you would take care of?
- What have you done for other people?
- What have people done for you?
- When did you take the wheel?
- What happened, and when did you have to take the wheel?
- How responsible will you feel for what?
Everyone’s pace is different.
What happened that you took back what you said about expressing yourself because you were afraid of being judged, marched to your own beat, and you sought to be accepted afterward?
In order to experience your own spiritual well-being, for you to say “ah! ” and move forward, are you ready to be reborn with the new year? When you run away from your mind saying, I will be ruled out, I will be excluded, I will miss that train, without being pushed over the edge of the cliff, get up and get back into action, arm in arm with coaching!
- The time to stop and think is over!
- You get out of that mindset of thinking about the dangers when you are safe, and striving to be safe when you are in danger!
- The chaos you are in is teaching you to get out of there!
REALIZE!
What is the life you really desire?
What is the decision you need to make today for that life?