Turn the Ignition!
If perceptions change, anything can happen at any time.
You get your driver’s license and set off, this is a process. You get your car, and that is a process, too. You decide where to go, this is a much more important process. You plot a route, determine your needs, have your maintenance done, complete your preparations and get in the driver’s seat.
You fasten your seat belt, check your mirrors and fuel, and now you are at the wheel, all you have to do is turn the ignition. There comes a moment of hesitation, then it is a process of clearing your hesitations. Then, you turn the ignition and step on the gas. You pay attention to the signs on the road and focus on the road. Sometimes you are alone on the road, and sometimes you are not alone.
You come across with other vehicles, you take breaks on the way, depending on the road, when you run out of fuel, you go to the gas station, fill your tank, and then set off again. Sometimes there are breakdowns on the road, sometimes there are accidents, this is a process as well, or nothing happens. You continue on the road again, put some music on, enjoy the view and the road. Now I ask you;
Where are you in this process in your life journey?
Where are you in this process in your relationships and communications?
Be mindful of where you react strongly in your life and your relationships. It is important to be aware of what message you are sending to life and the other person with your reactions. What do you mean to say, but what does he/ she understand from it? With the communicational mistakes we make, the problems that arise in life and relationships can be resolved.
Because essentially, everything is PERCEPTION in our relationships with ourselves, others, and life. The way the other party perceives you determines the direction of their behavior towards you. Likewise, the way you perceive the other person determines the direction of your behavior towards him/ her.
- So, what creates this perception?
- How to create a nice perception?
We create these perceptions through the matters we react to, the way we react, our actions, and the way we express ourselves. Therefore, being conscious of what we react to, how much we react to it, and how we react gives us the power to control. Unfortunately, more often than not our actions with good intentions may contain other messages. And therefore, we can make mistakes. We may find ourselves in situations that are difficult to make up afterwards, such as “sowing dragon’s teeth“. As perceptions change with awareness, anything can happen at any moment, but this happens in the direction and reality you want it to happen. The responsibility you will take at this point determines your path.
Which path will I take?
Coaching sessions allow you to work on the path you are going to take. Coaching tools illuminate and light up the road. Coaching always shows the individual the way. It makes you realize what you are experiencing, what you will leave behind, how to find your true path, your own path.
Your coach is with you along the way with powerful, right questions and innovative Coaching approaches, enriched with theories, gathering, clarifying, enlightening, transforming, and determining the path to take, with sessions full of planning content.
Sometimes the old can be comfortable, but the new is even more comfortable. It is even better to understand and adapt to the new than to judge and question. In the process, some say, “I want my old comfort back“, but those who continue with resolution say “I’m glad I continued” when they experience the rewards waiting for them at the end of the road.
Those who find it difficult to leave the past in the past only prolong the process. When you learn to trust your inner voice with Coaching, you will calm down in such instances of surges of emotion. You will gain self-confidence in all areas of life where you feel insecure. You start by truly knowing yourself and accepting yourself as you are. Those who continue on their way with coaching, first realize the difficulties you have overcome so far, please realize how much of a transformation you have gone through up to this point, maybe you have come out of the cocoon like a butterfly. Always be self-aware.
One cannot go anywhere standing still, be willing to take action!
As you deceive yourself and run away, as you avoid coping with the darkness of the road and don’t take responsibility, you childishly wait saying “let it happen let it happen” and look for a miracle in life; but even life is with those who are on the way. Unless you reach this voluntary desire in spirit and heart, you will continue to encounter possible setbacks and not turn that ignition. Standing where you are, you start to lose what you have without even realizing it.
Because, as I mentioned in my previous blog posts, the flow of life always goes on with or without you.
Turn the ignition and set off!
Sometimes, one faces the challenges brought by the periods of transition and focuses on this transition so much that he/she cannot realize that the desired point has been reached, or there is a state of confusion of ‘I have arrived somewhere, but where is this place’. After this process where you feel stuck, you need to relax a little and calm your mind.
At this point, some people think about how to deal with several things at once. This is perfectly normal as well. It will not be right at this point to show a tendency to run away by worrying and to engage in deception. Because again, this just prolongs the process.
You don’t have to rush, but you shouldn’t stop, either. You will find solutions when you re-create your awareness and perception. Be aware of what you have accomplished, what you have revealed piecing together which parts, and please do not forget to appreciate yourself.
Ensure that you and the people around you experience change and novelty with love and happiness!
Remember where you find the negative and the positive. Do a situation analysis of your communications, your memories, your feelings again. Enable yourself with understanding, realizing that you are in a process of adjustment as you transition between your old pattern and your new one. Know how to create happiness and PROCESS happiness without making dramatic mistakes on your own. Take note of all that you have overcome. Observe first what you experience inside, not how you project it outside.
Realize that you have the opportunity to do several things at once and evaluate your possibilities. You are at a very good point! Now you will not experience alone, but move forward with what you will experience together! Now, it’s all full speed ahead!
If instability is “Where to go, where to take a step”; with Coaching, you can always find your way, your direction, your step, where you will go. The question is;
How much can I accept myself with all that I have done, with everything?
This question will lead you to transformation. The moment you accept yourself is the first step. TAKE IN the process.
- Maintain the stability of the process. You are experiencing a new you!
- You are experiencing a new state!
- You are experiencing a new life!
- Don’t stop moving forward in your new form!
- Believe in your new reality!
- In your life where you know your own worth and appreciate your new life, anything is possible!
Turn the ignition and let the future start today!
Always be true to who you choose to be!
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