COACHING That Makes It Possible
I come to you today with a lot of questions. As always, with me as your travel companion, together let’s set up a table of reality, and find solutions with powerful questions and conversation. Our topic today will be the strong leader within you and inviting that leader into your life.
There is nothing lacking in your strength, but there is in the way you project it out. In order to reveal your hidden talents, you need to get support, realize your accessibility to your resources, and be able to produce. Reconsider yourself and your life.
What do you have that you can invest in tangible areas of your life?
Self-development, maturation, discovering what you can currently do give you self-confidence. Observing your opportunities before taking action gives you strength.
Life invites you to the stage!
What competencies do you have?
What are the data that you have control over in your life?
In order for you to be able to manage and analyze situations better, make better decisions, and have a sufficient level; what do you need? Evaluating all options is important here!
Can my dreams really come true?
Concentration and Focus
Your efficiency is as important as the ways that are effective for your dream goal.
How active do you see yourself in your life?
What inner resources do you have to achieve your goal?
What equipment do you have to achieve your goal?
Please just examine yourself objectively, without judgment, or criticism. Don’t go too deep. The deeper you go, the more likely you are to become spiritually confused. This slows you down. A little reason, some emotion, and being able to stay superficial sometimes, without suffocating yourself in this situation, or getting too caught up in your dream world, show you that quick solutions are already in front of you.
As experiences, sometimes inexperience can offer us good things in life, as well. In some situations, ignorance is an advantage and can allow you to think without limiting yourself. Flexibility is an advantage for you in learning to use your powerful potential efficiently. Putting all your energy into it all at once can cause you to get tired earlier on a long road.
It will make you happy to make more result-oriented moves, to use your energy in a balanced way, to move forward without making too much effort in your actions, to take precise spot-on actions, and to enjoy the road. You will be calmer as you manage the performance of your potential, as you get results that strengthen your belief in the goal.
It is possible to achieve the result without the need for overexertion, strain, and extreme focus, that is, without burning yourself out. Is your problem weakness or wasting your strength, please observe and ask yourself; What guidance do you need here?
When the time comes, life takes you on stage!
Of course, the basic philosophy of coaching that I often mention is; no one can tell you what to do, but you can tell you what to do. From this perspective, ask the leader within you now; what should I do? What is the Leader within you telling you? Trust your own wisdom and the leader within you.
Start Over
You may have had jobs and been in relationships that you think were wrong, but maybe you should have been there. Maybe it was for you to “Start Over“, your life, yourself start it all over. It may also be that you had to strive and bring it to a certain point; that order was destroyed and you had to establish a new one. You may have created a new routine out of the perpetual chaos. You may have unwittingly developed a permanent and recurring Simurgh belief by saying that you are always being tested in the same cycle as a part of destiny. Let’s determine the current situation.
How fair am I treating myself?
How can I treat myself more fairly?
What have I done wrong to myself and where have I treated myself unfairly?
What are the areas where I am wrongly spending my efforts and consuming my energy?
How can I discover and change rigid belief patterns?
What are the areas where I devalue myself by comparing and conditioning?
Please don’t forget to congratulate yourself for doing a great job so far and for the road you have come thus far. When you look at the past, you will be happy to notice the difference with the point you have come from. Discover your strengths. It is possible to balance the scales and move forward peacefully on your path. If you say, my roads are blocked, it means it’s time to forge a new path for yourself.
A New Beginning
Don’t waste time waiting for your closed paths to open. Know that you can increase your awareness and make a “New Beginning”. You can make a leader out of the court you have built inside you. With regained sensitivity, you can start a leader’s revolution in your life by becoming clean and clear of deceptions, delusions, illusions.
You can find your own justice. You can be freed from all the bonds, spaces that hurt and upset you, and you can set on a brand new path by establishing a new routine. You can put an end to futile and unfruitful processes. You can prevent unfair treatments; move on from questions of “why?” to “what?” and how?”. If you want everything to be made visible on your way; you can create that path yourself.
With gratitude, you can activate beauty, efficiency, and good intentions in your life. You can bring about rebirth and change through making postponed decisions and awareness. You can give yourself a chance before you surrender thinking ‘universe give me a chance’. With your leadership, you can enliven your life and invigorate, by breathing a new life into it. In your unprecedented garden, with your leadership, you can bring abundance, fertility, and beauty to your life again. You can bring the joy of living, enthusiasm, and happiness back into your life.
Now take some intentional time for yourself and think. Express yourself gratitude for the journey you have come so far in your life. See different perspectives of life, see what can inspire your day with your experiences. You can choose to see the beauty in all your experiences and accept what life has to offer.
You can identify people who do not know what they want from your past and are not clear, people who have constant problems with their past and cannot overcome them, people who can keep you from your progress, and you can eliminate them from your life. You can reveal your life energy by increasing your self-worth.
You can do things that will make your talents visible. With your leadership, you can reach your inner wisdom. Now, instead of directing the people around you, you can choose to move forward for yourself! In awareness and harmony, you can make demands that will enable you to work with the communities and groups that you are a part of.
You can take care of yourself more, rest and take care of your physical health. You can pour yourself into your inner leadership and put up your fight of determination for your efforts of self-realization and your goals. You can be free from the issues that you had to acknowledge and situations that you had to accept that force the transformation of your life philosophy and beliefs.
If it were possible to remember who we really were before we were taught who we should be, to step out of the life roles that were taught to us, to be the YOU that you created, instead of the positioned, repressed YOU; what would your life be like?
Remember that only a clear mind can reach its goals easily and I am alongside you with COACHING that makes it possible for you. Confucius says; “one word can change your decision, one emotion can change your life, one person can change you.” Together with COACHING; You can change your DECISIONS with strong awareness and your own words, you can get yourself out of the areas where you are waiting for a savior; your LIFE with the emotions that arise with the creation of your real life script and leaving the emotions of the script built in illusion, and you can CHANGE YOURSELF on the way to becoming the best version of you by revealing the whole and complete leader that already exists within you.
Please reconsider any external guidance and advice you have received. Sometimes even well-intentioned support can unwittingly overshadow your leadership. With leadership, you can get yourself out of situations where you have to act according to conditions.
Focus on reaching your highest potential. First imagine, but please do design a path that will enable you to grow both in the material, external world, and internally. You can use your potential talents and creative energy, release them in life, express your special features, your values, and shape your path without postponing. By revealing your own nature, you can configure your dreams with your own self. Don’t be afraid to move on courageously.
What can you do different from what you have always done?
What can you experience by reconnecting to your life energy with the leader within you?
It is possible to reset, to start over. Have confidence in the new choices you make, and in yourself making those choices. Especially if you believe in the things you ruminate in your head and if you are easily convinced of these, if you cannot create positive thoughts and overcome the thoughts you believe are negative, COACHING makes it possible for you to find your solutions. You can get yourself out of that point you only dream of, by not going one step further, saying, it’s impossible I cannot do it, and that you regard as a dream.
The path opens effortlessly, but first, you have to be ready to walk, only then will you always be where you need to be. Trust the leader within you, focus on gently putting one foot in front of the other. Follow the leader within you. Affirm yourself with love. Now I am re-directing this question to you;
What does the Leader within you suggest for your own path?
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