The ELB Method in Performance Coaching
In addition to all the great methods I had learned before I met coaching, I had also encountered so many unfounded approaches that I ended up approaching new trainings with hesitation. But at the same time, I was still curious to learn.
When I was introduced to coaching through Thomas J. Leonard, I realized what an amazing approach coaching can be. In the aftermath of this meeting, I have experienced the power of the coaching approach rather effectively in my own life. In over 25 years of coaching, I have been a companion to people who have benefited from this transformation. Finally, I developed the “Enriching Life Bonds” (ELB) method, which combines all my years of knowledge and experience.
Dear friend, when you understand this method properly, you can apply it to your whole life, to every situation you experience.
In this blog post, I will cover how the ELB method provides an approach in performance coaching. No matter what problem you are facing right now, I am sure you will find it helpful if you apply what I have shared to your own life. I have even prepared a surprise for you at the end of this post so that you can integrate this approach into your life more successfully.
Performance coaching
A performance coach is someone who guides you to find your true essence, helps you understand what you really want in life, helps you discover your goals to live your life in a fulfilled and satisfied way, and is your companion in the realization of these goals. They keep you on track with the right and powerful questions.
The coaching process enables the person to build their performance in the desired direction. It improves the individual’s problem-solving skills. It makes it much easier for them to take a look at their living space. It enables them to spot the shortcomings and helps them to incorporate new living spaces into their life.
Coaching leads you to success. This, however, is not an overnight success. Because the coaching approach seeks qualified achievement. Quality success thrives on sustainable motivation. Maintaining sustainable motivation is facilitated through coaching that enables you to tap into the fullest version of your potential. And it’s your achievements that take you to the very top. Coaching ensures you stay on top.
ELB coaching
ELB coaching empowers you to bring success, motivation and companionship to all areas of your life by drawing on a variety of psychological theories. Life is not made of individual roles, but of a holistic existence. Enriching Life Bonds is an understanding that should permeate every aspect of a person’s life.
If you would open your heart to receive what I am sharing with you and if you would listen to me with your whole being, you will begin to experience a deepening and a progression in your life.
No relationship is independent of the other. None of us are separate from each other. You are making an impact on yourself and those around you, and that impact impact is transmitted through the links of the chain to me. In the same way that my influence extends to you… One of us is connected to the other.
In the same way that we are interconnected, our living spaces are also influenced by each other. It is therefore impossible to think of change and transformation in only one direction. Your work life affects your personal life, your family life affects your social relations. Money is an important aspect of life and it affects your overall quality of life. As a complete and whole human being, you experience all these in unison. You cannot work in your office and be separate from your family, socialize with your friends and be separate from your personal relationships. You are responsible for every aspect of your life at every given moment. You are experiencing it all at the same time.
Adapting the ELB method to life
Human beings are social beings. They are connected to life and to other people through invisible bonds. This connection is crucial. But it is not a relationship of dependence. Connected relationships do not shackle the person like dependent relationships do, but rather they support the person to be free to show their colors, to shine their light.
Human beings communicate. Communication is not one-way. In communication, there is a reciprocal and continuous flow from one person to the other. This flow emerges from the awareness of the “here and now” and the interaction of the respective needs of the parties involved in the communication.
Human life is experienced through cycles. In its own life cycles, it fulfills its own needs while ensuring that the needs of others are also fulfilled.
Life is mutual
Performance coaching centers on the individual and considers their life as a complete whole.
It enables them to gain an insight into their current situation, to get to know themselves, to assess their relationships and their quality of life. It creates people who already know where they are, what they want to do and where they are going.
Every person has a place they want to go. This place is defined with performance coaching in a more clear way.
The ELB method of performance coaching ensures a multidimensional assessment of the desired destination, as it evaluates the person with all their connections and relationships in life. It is ensured that the person attains the goal they desire to achieve, taking into account the state of the connections they are involved in. The action plan and the person’s goals are then formulated on this basis.
While coaching enables the individuals to transcend their own limits, the ELB method empowers the individuals who transcend their own limits to also transform their environment and to carry their team and superiors forward in a positive direction.
7 questions to solve your current problem
There have always been problems in life and there always will be. The challenge is knowing how to approach those problems. It is learning to be able to resolve problems.
Dear one, if you answer my questions below honestly, reflecting on a problem you are going through right now, you will start to experience the many benefits of performance coaching and the ELB method.
- How would you describe your current challenge?
- What is the problem you are going through making you experience?
- What do you think your life will be like once this problem is solved?
- What do you need to solve this problem?
- Once this problem is solved, what do you need to live the life you dream of?
- What actions should you take to meet these needs?
- How should you organize your time to carry out these actions?
You can apply these questions to every problem you encounter in every area of your life and modify them in line with your needs.
Experiencing the miracles of the coaching approach and enjoying the enriching nutrients of the ELB method will lead you into a more rewarding life one step at a time.
And if you would like to experience the miracles of this method with my companionship, you are welcome to get in touch with me.