With Mentor Coaching, You Can
THE MOMENT YOU SAY “I CAN!”
Today, I am writing this blog post for the coaches who are on their credentialing journey or who have not yet decided to go on this path.
Coaches who have not started their mentor coaching sessions, although I do not know what is keeping you, stopping you, making you indecisive and inactive, as a mentor I can guess. Please know that with my 25 years of coaching experience, I understand you very well. Check out the information I have shared with you about me and mentor coaching on my website.
Let’s assume that you have decided and started now so that you can foresee what can happen when you get your Mentor Coaching.
Let’s see what can happen.
Welcome to your professional certification journey with Mentor Coaching sessions with me!
Please know how precious you are for yourself in this life. Dream and follow your dreams, let go, surrender and stay in the moment. If you dream regularly, you will strengthen your connection with yourself.
You open yourself up to inspirations you will get from yourself. When you are open to taking your mind off life, you can watch possibilities as if you are watching a movie without directing your thoughts, and at that moment you realize all kinds of emotions, thoughts, new ideas.
You lay the groundwork for your creativity. Stay on the current path that can take you very far indeed. Trust that your positive expectations can come true. Wherever you can motivate yourself, stay there. Stay on your way, open your arms and let go of the problems and questions you have been holding tightly in your palms.
Open your hands, arms and heart to receive full support. Embrace the strength and consciousness that exists within you and honor yourself before you go into this whole process. Allow yourself time to let your thoughts flow freely and leave yourself to time.
Would you eat a meal that was kept in the fridge for weeks, for months? Your answer must be “NO!”. If you go on living, carrying the old and broken memories to this day, it will corrupt your soul, mind, and body. Now, please leave your processes in the Coaching profession behind for a moment. Allow yourself to be refreshed, to be refreshed in your Coaching sessions, and to exist at your best.
A great quote by Descartes is; “I think therefore I am!“
So who would you be when you had no thoughts, when you were not thinking? I admit the question is a bit challenging, but when you succeed in gaining a perspective with a different consciousness, you will be able to exist in the sessions without thinking and stay comfortably with your coach identity, deeply listening to your client.
In our Mentor Coaching sessions, we will first manage to create a new awareness in you. This innovation; takes time and practice. The more sessions you experience, the longer you can keep up the quiet in your mind.
Your Coaching identity in the session and your Coaching identity in your life make you realize that you are much more than your thoughts and feelings. Starting with ourselves, we are masters of mindfulness, and we ask powerful questions to create “A-Ha!” moments in each session. We are our clients’ inner voice, the true consciousness of the moment.
This is only possible with our own mental calmness. That’s why, as an MCC credentialed Mentor Coach, my advice to all coaches is that you don’t exceed a maximum of 4 sessions per day.
Please remember the fact that you have a life, too. You also have an area that you call “My Life” with your living situation, work relationships, your body, and your roles in your life positions. Transactional Analysis Theory, which I state that every Coach should know, especially in my training programs, should primarily change your life.
In addition, the area that you call my life has a story that has continued up to now and will continue in the future. At this point, it is the fundamental professionalism of your identity in the coaching profession to carry out your session without internalizing yourself with the session subject, in the life and story of your client, which has its similarities or contrasts.
First of all, you should know that you are not just your current story. The awareness of being the best version, the state of being a good performance coach, as I have expressed in detail in Gestalt Theory and the figure/ground principle, if you have a life on the ground, you will be the shape, if you are on the ground, your life will be the shape.
What does this mean?
In its simplest form, while looking at an artist’s art on the canvas, it is to notice the existence of the canvas beyond the painting. To be able to recognize the parts of the whole and the integrity of the parts at the same time.
AWARENESS OF AWARENESS!
Being able to manage the session at maximum performance with the mastery of multidimensional looking, hearing, and feeling. With Gestalt theory, you learn how you can achieve this depth in interaction with your client.
In our 10 sessions with Mentor Coaching, we identify all your areas of need. You can complete your extra training needs with me during your process. With this power created in you, you can reflect the same consciousness to your questions and feedback.
You will also be able to allow your client to deepen within him/ herself in this dimension. Your client who receives a coaching session will be pleased that you are his/ her coach, and the whole process will make him/ her feel good. Being able to achieve solutions at this depth will also make your client happy.
With Mentor Coaching sessions, you will embark on a transformational and developmental journey with your Coaching identity. With your attitude now open to being curious and inspired, you will first become aware of your existence as a coach in your life. You will discover practical ways of making your performance and name a Coach brand, choosing your specific field, excelling in that field, as well as how to do it.
You will be able to unlock the professionalism of how you can create transformations in the lives of others as a whole with coaching, both in your professional field and in your personal life.
Observe your current coaching, the training you have had so far. Write to me privately what you think about your current situation.
We will work together on your unity with your professional goals and areas that you reflect on your life by integrating with your coaching identity in your Mentor Coaching sessions. We will examine your positive and negative experiences in the experiences you have encountered. We will examine your process development by listening to some session audio recordings. We will also listen to audio recordings of other informative sessions and work on them. We will practice how you can change your Coaching sessions by getting out of your reflective state of mind. We will determine how you can plan your Coaching sessions more in the midst of your busy life as well as how you can easily reach the required number of sessions and the requirements of the credential you have chosen during the International Coaching Federation, ICF credentialing process.
You will learn how to apply coaching with all relevant theories. While forming your feedback and powerful questions, you will be able to go beyond your own INNER NARRATIVE and become conscious of being here and now with the present. You will enable yourself to be whole and unique with Coaching without comparing yourself to anyone’s path by leaving your Ego and conceptual identities.
Realizing that you can use Coaching tools in multiple ways in your sessions with teachings and practical exercises will enable you to be professional.
What awareness does coaching provide?
- How do you know if your sessions are successful?
- How do you reflect the mastery of coaching insights to your client in your sessions?
- What is the difference between being a coach and being a professional credentialed Coach?
- What does being an ICF-credentialed coach and a member of a federation provide you?
- How do you know you are a successful Coach?
- How can you minimize the judgment of your professional, personal success in your head?
- How can you deal with difficult situations or client profiles that exceed your professional field that may be experienced during the session?
- Is the goal of becoming a professional in the coaching profession really your goal?
- What kind of connection do we have with the ICF?
- What are the current Coaching certification processes according to ICF ethical requirements?
- How can your professional business life change with all this information, awareness, and the existing strength within you?
- How can your lifestyle change as a professional credentialed coach?
With me, your Mentor Coaching sessions continue for 10 sessions, but approximately 30 hours. As a mentee, in this process, it is aimed for you to achieve professionalism by going deeper into what you have learned in coach training. Together we will succeed! In your professional career, you also become clearer in many concepts relating to more conscious targeting, inner satisfaction, and achievement.
I will guide you step by step in all your work while doing this 10-session mentoring. While doing your job with strong confidence in your own self-worth, your own conditions, and your own reasoning, I will help you create an authentic performance and a performance accepted by the ICF in the area of a Coaching session, and in the Coaching system.
- What kind of fabric do you want to make dresses from?
- How do you create your own collection?
- What would you like the theme of this collection to be?
- Who should buy your dresses?
- What is your target audience?
- What kind of brand will you be?
Observe your thoughts and your emotions as you think about them. Become aware of all the Coaching training you have received and what you have experienced in those trainings. Consider what it takes to be an ICF member coach, to be an Associate Certified (ACC) Coach, to be a Professional Certified Coach (PCC), to be a Master Certified (MCC) Coach.
Forgot all the past mental projections that you have built up to this point. Forget even the goals you have set before taking your Mentor Coaching sessions. Know that the goals you create with limitations are not real. Know that those thoughts that you sabotage yourself with doubts, worries, or misinformation don’t reflect the truth.
Remind yourself that you are not your thoughts. You are so much more, and it is possible to be so much more. If you are ready to experience the positive results of Mentor Coaching sessions, we can start now! We are together for 10 sessions to support your learning and professional development. Know that I design each of your sessions to meet your needs in your professional certification journey.
Together let’s end all your mistaken tendencies in your sessions with my Mentoring, but with the awareness that the whole process is YOUR AREA OF RESPONSIBILITY. Let’s do the personal research of your Professional development together.
“YOU CAN!“
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