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New composition with transactional analysis

5 December 2025 by fatihelibol in Coaching

Before we enter the new year, we will make our preparations together with coaching. If we want to leave the old in the past and make room for the new, we must first recognize the old correctly and create the new accordingly, but how?

You cannot write on a whiteboard with white chalk. You have to write on a blackboard so that the writing is clear. It is a state of understanding and comprehension. Understanding! There is surrender in this relief. You will suddenly be surprised. Each awareness that gains meaning will lead you to happiness and success in all areas of life, but how?

You will understand why things happen. As you discover the magic inside you, you will clarify the situations in which you are mistaken. You will realize that it is time to keep the promises you have made to yourself. You will work hard on your dreams. Maybe you will complete the unfinished things that you think about all night or morning long, but how?

The snake sheds its skin when it realizes that it does not fit in its body. It doesn’t worry thinking, what if my new skin doesn’t form? It sheds away its old skin by moving forward and never looks back at the skin it left behind, because growth is inevitable, but how?

Say goodbye to your old skin! Sad days are just as necessary as happy days. It starts the process of clarification and organization. To take action is to gain strength. The state of being confronted with yourself gives you courage. It enables you to trust your self-knowledge. Life is mentoring you, but how?

Drop your burdens to become one with your wish!

We are together not to dream into the future from here and now, but to build a life. Coaching with Transactional Analysis theory opens up highly powerful doors for us that reflect our perspective on life. It enables us to analyze these doors, which reflect our view of the world that make up our life positions.

It allows us to examine and restructure our personality style, our inner ego state, the way we work with life, and the way we communicate in our relationships. In this way, we have a life plan that we bring into view rather than just dreaming of it.

I ask you to carefully follow the blog posts that I will write one after the other, for the period until the new year. I have prepared wonderful surprises for you because I want this new year to be much more different than previous years for all of us. What will make 2022 different from other years? Even though I don’t know your beliefs, what I mean is not to wish and let go, but to let go of the burdens and become one with our wishes!

Any ingrained blind belief you are unaware of will consume you.

Perhaps you need a reliable voice. Does starting a new day every day really bring luck? Maybe all the methods you have tried so far to expand your awareness were left in the air at first. Have you noticed the onslaught of time flowing over you without being noticed in your life positions?

Maybe you have reached a breaking point due to mental exhaustion, but you didn’t have the energy to continue fighting, it’s possible. You expected that surrendering to the flow and being flexible along the life path would inevitably lead you to the highest place. You wanted to let go of expectations, and you believed whatever. You could not avoid dissociating yourself from the outcome. You got sucked into a whirlpool when it was possible to make rowing easier at the end of your struggle as you were challenging it all.

The current was supposed to take you away.

When you were distracted by thoughts or noises, it was very difficult to refocus your attention. It’s like wandering in the ocean of your devious mind…

• Who is going to take me on the route?
• What was the route?
• There may have been moments when you experienced this as well. Is it satisfying to be a leaf tossed around in the air and be vulnerable in every storm?  
• I wonder, how many people are feeling lost?
• Have you ever wondered, have I surrendered to the flow, or am I just drifting?
• What experiences have you had that you sacrificed yourself by saying it should be much more than that, and you constantly pleased others?

I invite you to sit in the ME SEAT.

• Would you like to have a nice view on this seat where you will be looking at life in a way that you have not before?  
• What would it be like if, instead of a place where the outside is known and the inside is unknown, you were in a place where the outside is known and the inside is intriguing?
• What is the current of the flow in your mind when your mind jumps from one fear to another, like swimming in an unfamiliar ocean?
• What is not active in your self, what are you are not working on?
• Does worrying about something change the outcome?
• Could it be that you are suffocating all the good things inside of you?
• How does a millipede move forward without mixing up its legs?
• How does the path to integrity find harmony within ourselves and in our lives?
• How is our communication, which ensures the integrity of our relationships, both personally and as a community?
• What is the balance that will help you grow, create, improve who you are?
• What is overlooked by our internal structures that are encouraged to imbalance?

Coaching with Transactional Analysis

There is a balance between our shifting and evolving selves. With these selves, we go in and out of every role. Our roles and life positions, however, are writing compositions. This point where Transactional analysis and coaching come together, provides us with the strongest facilitation, an opportunity to write a new composition!

We are constantly writing scripts and creating our own stories. To revitalize, breathe life, support growth, find and soften the spikes, find the breaking points of our hearts and personalities, balance and support them, TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS and Coaching tools allow you to bring your dreams to life.

Communication, communication, communication… We will analyze together our selves, personalities, and prominent style that establish communication in this field, on which there are countless studies. You will notice how landscapes can be easily beautified when even the originally perfect parts are spoilt. Coaching tools that enable formless thoughts to come to life are the providers of change and development towards a healthy state of relationships, communications, and ideals.

We will work together for the new composition of truth created by your whole being. If we want 2022 to be different for ourselves, we must get to know ourselves in all aspects of our journey to self-knowledge.

I invite you to me seat, not to dream, but to build a life. Get ready to receive the notification of the next blog post! Let’s start the future together!

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