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TAKING A STEP TOWARDS YOURSELF!
It’s time for your personal reality to change. In a life that exists with your actions and others’ behaviors towards you, it is very important that you become aware of the true definition of the emotions you are feeling.
I insist that you, for yourself, have a session with me, with the help of coaching tools, right and powerful questions, distinctive methods of theoretical approaches, and most importantly, methodologies where I combine the teachings I have learned throughout my life with coaching techniques. Because know for sure that Coaching has always offered me the most powerful and permanent solutions in my life. This is the main reason why I always insist on the impact that coaching creates! Please don’t see me as separate from yourself.
Don’t think of me as different from yourself. While life goes on with some situations and cycles for me too, I would like to thank life and my experiences for having me write a book on the definition of Self-Coaching, with the name THE FUTURE STARTS TODAY, for everyone. Although the process of change, transformation, and development is different for the story of every one of us, I would like to remind you that I am your companion with the COACHING profession. Know that I will always be your inner voice, the listener who understands you, and I will never be the one to judge, question, interpret what you have told, guide or criticize you.
Don’t wait for life to give you an illness, crisis, trauma, or a tragic situation to get out of your current situation and grow. Nor expect to be suddenly disconnected from your familiar life.
Do not be a victim of feelings and situations such as unhappiness, failure, love, lack of money. Do not expect to get into a feeling that you do not feel like yourself, or even feel quite alienated from yourself. Please don’t expect to experience a strong downfall. Should there be a specific event for you to protect yourself?!
HOW DO YOU TELL THE STORY OF YOUR LIFE?
If you love telling the story of your past that much, stop for a minute and think. What would it be like if you created the story of your future and started telling, and in time living, that story?
Coaching approach that integrates Transactional analysis and Gestalt theory enables you to create and live a brand-new life story. Being able to define your best version, what we call the old you and the new you, is just the beginning so that we can initiate a change with your coaching session!
The state of discomfort you are feeling in the present is actually the strongest call for change from your inner voice! It is a state of pressure that says: “Something has to change come on, come on, come on!” What are you determined to change about yourself? What conditions are you complaining about? It is the last stage before you decide to leave your excuses, justifications, complaints, judgments! Know for certain that you will feel very satisfied after your coaching session.
“My brain gave an ERROR, Mr. Elibol, it’s a complete blue screen!”
I remembered the words of a valuable client in our coaching session, we had laughed a lot. When he said “my brain gave an error, Fatih Bey, a complete blue screen!” while laughing out loud, what he actually experienced was the powerful awareness that came with an “A HA!” moment. When the fiction of the life story he told for years changed, all his emotions and his whole reality had changed. What happened at this coaching session I was talking about?
Here you go to the session;
WHAT HAPPENED IN YOUR CURRENT LIFE?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT WAS IT THAT YOU WANTED?
YOUR ANSWER IS;……………
WHAT WAS USEFUL TO YOU IN ALL THIS?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT DO OTHER PEOPLE THINK AND FEEL ABOUT THIS STORY YOU ARE TELLING?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………
WHAT DO YOU NEED AND WHAT DO YOU WANT IN THIS STORY YOU ARE TELLING?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………
WHAT CAN YOU LEARN FROM YOUR CURRENT LIFE?
YOUR ANSWER IS;……….
WHAT DO YOU THINK IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY IN THIS WHOLE STORY?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………
WHAT HAPPENS IN THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT IS POSSIBLE FOR YOU WITH THESE THINGS THAT ARE GOING TO HAPPEN?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………
WHAT ARE YOUR POSSIBLE OPTIONS?
YOUR ANSWER;……..
WHAT IS THE BEST THING TO DO RIGHT NOW?
YOUR ANSWER;……..
WHAT DOES DOING THIS MAKE YOU FEEL AND THINK RIGHT NOW?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT HAPPENS IN YOUR LIFE IF THIS REALLY HAPPENS?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT WOULD THE YOU, WHO EXPERIENCED THIS IN YOUR LIFE, SAY TO YOU?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
DO YOU THINK HE/ SHE IS HAPPY WITH THIS RESULT OR IS HE/SHE PRETENDING?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO HEAR FROM YOURSELF RIGHT NOW? WHAT’S IN YOUR MIND?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT IS HE/SHE NOT TELLING YOU, WHAT IS HE/SHE HIDING FROM YOU?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
IS THERE A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HIS /HER EMOTIONS AND WHAT HE/SHE DOES?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT DOES HE/SHE WANT TO DO IN THE NEXT STEPS?
YOUR ANSWER;……..
WHAT ARE HIS/HER ACTIONS FOR THIS?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT IS GOING THROUGH YOUR MIND RIGHT NOW, WHAT WOULD YOU RECOMMEND TO HIM/ HER?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT DO YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT THE NEW YOU IN THIS NEW LIFE?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT DOES THE NEW YOU WANT MOST FOR HIM/ HERSELF IN YOUR NEW LIFE?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT’S IN HIS/ HER PLANS?
YOUR ANSWER;……..
HAS THE NEW YOU INCLUDED YOU IN THESE PLANS?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THIS SESSION FOR THE OLD YOU AND THE NEW YOU?
YOUR ANSWER;……..
WHAT WERE YOU FEELING BEFORE COMING TO THE SESSION, WHAT ARE YOU FEELING NOW?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
PLEASE TELL ME HOW YOU WANT TO LIVE YOUR LIFE NOW FROM TODAY TO THE FUTURE. WHAT KIND OF LIFE DO YOU WANT TO HAVE?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
WHAT PREVENTS YOU FROM LIVING THE LIFE YOU WANT?
YOUR ANSWER IS;………………
Notice the stage you have come to up to this part of our session. You may hear a voice inside you that is blocking you. “Why don’t you start tomorrow, Isn’t the life you’re familiar with more comfortable, What change, what has changed so far, what I’ve experienced, what I feel, it’s his/ her/ their fault,…“
These are the voices of the saboteur. I recommend that you read the “SABOTEUR” section of our FUTURE STARTS TODAY book and immediately apply it.
The most powerful way to know the future is to create it!
THE SHOW WORLD!
Show yourself to yourself. What is similar to “Show” in your life? What is the success you want to have in your own world, in your life? Do you want to show, now get down to the field from the tribune! Be applauded, not just the one who applauds! Shine like a star! Give yourselves a round of applause! This life is yours! Are you going to live your life as a spectator?
No! You are both the tribune, and the star!
In order to get to the point you want to reach from the current situation, first make an impact on yourself. Take a step towards success. Don’t wait for a moment of experience. If your conditioned belief is an outside influence, I’m so sorry, that will never happen. You need the awareness to be able to aware, literally.
I recommend you to watch the video about motivation on my Youtube channel. However, know that; if there are shadows in the darkness, the light shines somewhere, as well, because if there was no light, there would be no shadow in the dark. All you have to do is get clear.
How will you transition into a brand-new state of existence, what are the thoughts that you will not listen to, what are the thoughts that you will listen to, what are the thoughts about your future vision, what feelings would you choose to live with each day?
Please contact me to receive a private coaching session regarding your story from me.
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