Best Me
SEEING THE “GLAD TO HAVE”S, EXPLORING DREAMS!
“A person who is patient, mature, has a high position, efficient with mild nature, has surpassed himself, has developed a certain level of understanding, and has a high talent…” said the masters. A person who is consistent, determined, clarified, who calculates and makes approaches that accelerate the process leaves one door and enters a new one.
EXIT! EXIT DOOR!
Shall we exit through the nearest exit door with the potential you carry inside?
Regardless of the point in your life where you are reading this post from, as in the coaching session, you will leave with awareness and a decision, which we call the “A-HA!” moment. As a Mentor coach, we have come an observably long way here with my blog posts so far.
If you haven’t read my previous posts yet, or if you have crossed paths with me on your journey today, I recommend you to read my blog posts at your first opportunity and start “Coaching Yourself” by purchasing my book Future Starts Today I wrote for you.
Know that you have potential inside that knows how to manage, has a say in your life, is determined to take action, and can turn anything you want into action.
- Where is your potential that will demolish and rebuild, not renovate?
- What has your experience up to now, together with all its processes, contributed to?
- If you had a broom, what would you clean up in your life?
- What would be your first action after doing this cleaning?
Coaching Session
It is a point where you seek and find your self, what is in your essence, your true identity, what you want in your core, and what is yours. The fireball inside the volcano is boiling, waiting to blaze and reveal itself. Remember that everyone is like a fingerprint and the concept of the self’s definition is different for everyone. What is it for you?
You will find what you look for in essence!
The excuses you create in your life to hang back, evasion, whatever you have to cover up your doubts about moving forward, will come out in the sessions. I share with you the words of my client who recently left my coaching session.
“I will no longer ignore them. I will bring any situation I am uncomfortable with into the open. I will no longer deceive myself. I am leaving the space I was obviously lingering because of my fears. I am at a time of beginning to a brand-new place and a time for a brand-new start. Maintaining the state of actualization, I go out to a new garden and create a new space for myself. I am transitioning to a new ME and I am aware of how important and valuable this opportunity is for me. I created my own opportunity that was not in my life but was mine. Whatever I do, I do for myself!”
If you set out with the intention of seeking answers, you will be mistaken because in the coaching session it is always you who has the answers. By choosing yourself, you will make way for an incredible victory. You know that you are very close to your hopes and dreams. No matter the situation you are in right now, it’s up to you to dig up the treasures from the ruins in your life. If it was destroyed once, you can rebuild it now. Only if you believe, the future starts today!
- Focus on the presence of love, not whether it is shown or not shown!
- Focus on the existence of success, not whether it is achieved or not achieved!
- Focus on the existence of happiness, not whether it is felt or not felt!
- Focus on the existence of information, not whether it is known or unknown information! Because in essence, all of them exist.
In every type of relationship, both sides first feed themselves and then feed the relationship. Give appreciation, approval, all these beautiful things, that beautiful environment, and space to yourself first. All relationships are basically a system for three. You, me and us! We don’t exist without knowing me. We can’t be us without knowing you.
BEST ME
Whatever it is the point that you want to take us to is related to our “BEST ME” version. The way to establishing healthy relationships in all areas of our lives is not to ignore ourselves. Unless the door of your potential is open, there will be chaos in all your living spaces.
However, it does not mean that the values you choose to live by do not exist in that area. Your living spaces have potential as well as the measure of your potential. The coaching session says; it is time to open the door of this place, here and now, it is time to open the way for the space. It is the process in which you realize and expand your “glad to have”s, for which your experiences are rewarded. With a coaching session, you move forward in a single session and leave with your own way.
Believe me, not every door is closed, sometimes you just need to touch it. It is also possible to find the inside unoccupied. Sometimes life destroys your slum to build a beautiful building. Life brings such moments that you decide to get off the treadmill with your best potential, strength, and faith. If you intend to catch the slightest old and the same comfort, you will become conscious. There is no staying the same in life. In this process, where you cannot make it on your own, you leave the coaching session by leaving the STATE OF INABILITY TO BE YOURSELF.
“To the one who has died a thousand deaths, the grave is a curtain that hides the paradise,” says a master. You become free from the pressures you put on yourself. In the coaching session, you leave the past behind and say goodbye. You find ways to make your talents visible with your full potential and creativity, and you turn them into action.
Are you ready to experience your own creativity? What do you really need for this? How is it possible for you to realize the “GLAD TO HAVE”s within and around you?
Everyone wants to lead a happy, healthy, and comfortable life, to feel full of joy, peace, abundance, blessings, and to be endlessly fulfilled. You actually have everything you desire, but reality seems different, doesn’t it?
Instead of being happy with the happy moments accumulated in our lives, we strive to reach the world’s conditions and level of welfare that make us think that we are perceptibly safe, but we also realize from time to time that this is not enough for our happiness. Systems all over the world are focused on this, the main goal is always concrete achievements, but this does not lead to happiness.
- So, what are “glad to have”s that make us happy in life?
- There is not even a lesson called happiness in schools, but in life there is, isn’t it?
- How does the idea of becoming a master of seeing the “glad to have”s in your life sound to you right now?
If you struggle with any “glad to have” value as it exists, you usually lose it. The main point I want to draw your attention to here is to realize and develop “glad to have” values. We have a practice that we use as a tool in coaching sessions, which we call rate yourself and living spaces.
I haven’t seen anyone give 0 points for a value on the wheel of life. But even that 0 score carries with it a presence. Swimming against the current and fighting against the river brings a flow within this potential of existence. You leave the session with this pleasant flow and you don’t have to push the wind.
A person who lives his/ her whole life trying to please others and hoping that everyone will like him, leaves the session as a person who can make himself happy. A person who is broken, who is judging himself, beating himself up leaves the session realizing that he is perfect as he is. It is so important to take care of yourself and pay attention to yourself. Understanding that even routinizing this is a “glad to have” will make you deeply and internally happy.
We may have been taught that this is selfishness, but isn’t it time to change that and love yourself? Who knows when did you learn this belief that makes you think that everyone else is always much more important than you… What are you experiencing that you are always sacrificing yourself for?
There is no destruction in coaching sessions, there is transformation. You do it, you find out how to do it, you find the way to the exit door and how to get out of the way, how to reach that door, what awaits you behind the door, and how to create the life behind the door.
The most basic value is happiness. Everyone wants to be happy, but happiness is a feeling about us. When in verbal expression, we say glad to have you, we say I am glad that you are healthy, glad I am healthy, flying birds, the wind, the flowing river, the breath you breathe, the plants, and other things to be thankful for; How INTERNAL is it really? How INTERNAL is the pleasure you take from the moment you live in?
You are the one who is always self-sacrificing, stabbing and sticking himself, leaving himself behind. Now collect your “glad to have”s, smile with enthusiasm, and come! Let’s grow them together; continue with them as you leave the Coaching session! If you are asking, what should I take from this session, first of all, take the awareness it brings. Laugh out loud now!
When was the last time you felt like laughing?
What made you laugh at that moment?
You who thinks he is worthless, if you don’t see yourself as others see you, you are always the one who tries to be perfect, right? Where do you see your own worth? Where did you put that powerful, high value within you? Let’s find the exit door from your hiding place.
Whatever you have done or not done so far, accept it as an experience lived and done. Arrive in the present without judging and blaming yourself in the pool of the past! FORGIVE! Let’s set off towards the future with your best potential, your “glad to have”s, and your strongest performance. Let’s move forward together; realize that you are free from all restrictions on this path.
Fill your honeycombs like a bee…
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