There’s Always a Way for a New Beginning
A bird living in a cage constantly dreams of freedom but is afraid as, given food and water regularly, it does not know how to eat its fill outside. Even if it might get out of the open-doored cage, it is not sure where to fly and so chooses to remain in the cage with all its fears. After a while, this turns into a comfort zone.
Think about what you have in your life that you fear you cannot do without, but you know you cannot do with them either. With the thoughts from our minds and subconscious, we create belief patterns in the face of many events reflected in our lives. These experiences limit us over time.
We cannot realize that we give up the power we lead our lives with wisdom to these patterns. After a while, with troubling events, we come to turning points, and we are forced to make choices. So much so that, in the face of life forcing us to make these choices, leaving our comfort zone and settling matters are problems for us.
With these events that we no longer take responsibility for without even realizing, we create chaos and challenging areas in our lives. From this point, this chaotic situation makes us even more pessimistic.
Human beings are whole, and so are all our life spaces. Our family, our social environment, our personal and spiritual development, our health, our work and career life, our relationship with money, and with ourselves, our physical environment, and our emotional, romantic relationships are different areas of our lives.
Although we have our own values and ethics in all areas, we also have many belief patterns. We are limited by the wounds and emotional spaces inside us that are as invisible as they are visible, but that exist. We want to successfully advance and expand in each of our life spaces that we feel stuck inside. Reconstructing ruins is what we need to work on, but ignoring and masking them is a great escape.
Coaching Session
Whatever you are going through right now, you can choose to give yourself the chance to experience a coaching session. The coaching session will enlighten you, allow you to see your way, find the information you need inside of you, and seize the power within. It will guide you with the right questions to turn your wisdom into action. Firstly, allow yourself to feel what you feel with what you have been through.
How do I feel right now?
What do I need?
Ask and stop, listen to the voice inside you.
Can’t you hear that voice amidst all the thoughts and beliefs your mind generates?
Well, allow that as well.
Your Coach will not judge or criticize you but will listen to you with questions. THE COACH WILL REALLY LISTEN TO YOU. Your mind, having become simpler and calmer, will become silent, and this silence will provide you with the space where you can listen to your inner voice.
Managing the emotional state and realizing your mistakes will remind you that the power of the inner world that you closed off has actually been there since your existence. They will allow you to see all the false faith patterns that you have created to achieve a satisfying balance in your life.
In the journey of life, there is no fixed method or written prescription that fits everyone. Even in the medical world, doctors advise to treat the patient, not the disease. Each individual has a unique story and special values.
In a coaching session, your coach does not tell you what to do. He/ she allows you to unleash your wisdom, find ways that match your values, and develop alternative ways to overcome, solve and achieve success instead of being patient with the obstacles you encounter.
Experiences are not just about the mind; decisions that hover over the mind and don’t sink into the soul are never permanent. The coach allows you to build a lasting bond with your decisions and move forward with stability. If you encounter a potential, unpredictable situation on the road, the coach is with you to approach and deal with the situation with leadership by taking the initiative.
In our coaching session and afterward, it’s the coach’s duty to make sure you can always trust your coach. Your coach is compatible with you. The most basic needs of humans are protection, shelter, and trust. Our feelings such as joy, joy, enthusiasm, peace, that is, our life energy, reflect themselves on the basis of trust.
We need a clear field of expression and acceptance for us to have foresight with our feelings and intuitions, create and produce with different ideas, develop methods with our imagination, and be open to exploring novelty.
What we feel is our responsibility. In the coaching session, we reach our core knowledge that we can take responsibility for our emotions. In coaching, in cooperation and balance, we determine how we will reflect the information obtained from experiences or observations in our lives to our decisions and our path, what we use and what we leave behind.
With your coach who listens, understands, supports, assures you, accepts you as you are, and makes you feel free, you could solve your problems permanently and reach the success you want to achieve. Above all, by gifting yourself the experience of a coaching session, you could achieve your best self.
With a coaching session, there is always a way for a new beginning in all life spaces. If you choose to take the first step in finding a way, I am with you, right here and now.
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