We are going diving, get ready.
Deep awareness with the protection of coaching!
- What does it look like to treat yourself with self-respect?
- What would be the benefits of intimacy and sincerity in your relationship with yourself?
- How do you realize what you need?
- What would it be like if there was no need to make a distinction?
- What is happening in your current relationship with yourself right now?
Self-appreciation…
When you realize that you care for yourself and you start living with a natural flow without feeling obligated, you begin to create POSSIBILITIES THAT INVOLVE YOURSELF. TRUST is trusting what you know.
It is the confidence that you can choose the right thing for yourself. It is being able to say, I trust that I can choose what is functional for myself. Making a choice does not have to be about someone else. By asking questions, you can invite yourself to choose yourself. Do you think that would be rewarding?
Making choices is not about throwing everyone out and then separating them from ourselves, it is about including ourselves and everyone else in a balanced way.
Because all the choices we make affect us and others. In fact, this is the area of covert responsibility that we often escape from. VULNERABILITY scares us. Yet, let’s imagine solely being there as we are, fully and honestly without having to hide anything, with no shame, no judgment of what we have, openly to others, allowing ourselves to be here and now, in freedom of vulnerability.
This freedom is the absence of barriers. It’s not trying to protect ourselves. However, in this vulnerability is the STRONGEST POTENTIAL OF AWARENESS. We are aware of everything that happens around us. Let us realize that we are buying the lie that we will suffer when we are vulnerable. What would happen if, instead, we bought the perspective that we suffer less as we simply exist in life without barriers?
SOMEONE LIKE A MARSHMALLOW…
Think of punching a soft marshmallow, even if someone tries to hurt you, you are fluffy as a marshmallow. How can you hurt a marshmallow, you simply cannot. And in life, when we stand without a barrier, what comes in just passes by, right? We can stand there with all our attention, and they would just pass by. Just imagine the freedom this will grant you with right now. What would I gain by allowing others’ choices and being aware of my own choices?
- What do I say No to when I say Yes?
- What do I say Yes to when I say No?
- What are the things I allow and don’t allow?
- What am I resisting?
- What are the things I am reacting to?
Every time we try to resist and fight, we get tired. We are having our core energy stolen, and the thief is very pleased with himself. We are giving him what he wants without him making any effort. Instead of this situation, we can ask WHAT IS THE USE OF CHOOSING THIS?
After a research question that will provide us with awareness, “If I know this, I will be more aware, I know that you would not make a choice that will hurt me or anyone else. I would love to receive this information.“ When you had a statement like this, what would happen there?
You will find that it will be much different than blaming people and finding the fault in them. It also protects us from making a mistake in a choice that we can make automatically. By giving functional permission from this space of allowing, we essentially become like a rock in a stream. All thoughts, feelings, emotions, behaviors, beliefs, judgments, anything can come upon us, and when we are in this state of allowing, we become like a rock and they cannot do anything to us. They simply pass us by.
Now, write down at least 3 things you are grateful for, about yourself and the people with whom you experience a similar resistance. Please write this immediately without delay. You will gain awareness from which wonderful possibilities can arise, and above all, you will conserve your core energy. A person’s relationship with themselves allows them to wake up to their own reality.
How far have you been able to progress in your life on this subject, on which countless books have been written for centuries? Why did dozens of books not have the expected effect? Because none of the ideas were yours. The power that provides a permanent solution in the coaching approach is to enable you to reveal your ideas.
A relationship that can actually open up incredible possibilities is available when we are intimate with ourselves. If we can appreciate ourselves, if we have confidence in ourselves, if we are vulnerable with ourselves, whatever choices we make, we are permissive and grateful for ourselves rather than judgmental.
Being ourselves is truly a gift to the change that the world needs.
Being ourselves is not something bad and wrong as we have been told. Being ourselves is the only thing that will give us everything we desire in life!
- Where was it that that being ourselves was labelled to be a mere mistake?
- What is the value of not being ourselves and not looking at the universe with our own eyes?
- What false value do we cling to?
- If anything was possible right now, what would you want to change forever?
- Where did you leave your own unparalleled happiness?
- When did you give up your own joy?
What would it be like if you were permissive towards yourself, giving thanks for yourself instead of judging?
- Be willing for balance here and now!
- Here and now!
- Breathe in the future!
- Swim freely in the ocean of life with the protection of coaching and the breath of awareness in deep diving!
- Your coach is with you whenever you need oxygen support!
- You don’t have to hold your breath or use it sparingly!
- Breathe out, let go of the past and fill your whole being with freshness now!
- Fill your whole life!
- Breathe in the love! All is well…
- You can convince yourself that you are worthy of loving yourself! You can convince yourself to be in a flow of life that fits your plans!
- You can convince yourself that you can build relationships without the belief of suffering!
- You can convince yourself that you can be loved without the belief of being loved conditionally!
- You can convince yourself to love without the belief of loving conditionally!
What would it be like to love and be loved without the belief of punishment?
- What would it be like if we knew how to build relationships without the belief of deprivation?
- What would it be like to live without secrecy?
- What would it be like to know how to always be yourself?
- Are you willing to experience these things for yourself?
You can be free from all past and future belief patterns that have not allowed you to live until now! You can hear and understand again where you are, the ‘value you see in yourself‘ in the person or people you love! If you really want to realize this, coaching is right next to you! A coaching session where you can let go of control is with you! Put your old plans aside and come, let’s plan a brand-new life together where you can be yourself!
IT’S POSSIBLE TO BE GLUTTED WITH YOURSELF!
