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8 March 2025 by fatihelibol in Coaching

How is the life that is happening for me right now?

What am I experiencing in this life right now?

As we say “Hello!” to a new month with the month of September. Come, let’s renew all our living spaces, but first, let’s renew ourselves together. Let’s re-examine your relationships in all your living spaces for fresh energies, a new perspective, and a brand new You. Remember that the book I wrote “The Future Starts Today” and these blog posts, are all for you, nothing is superior to or more important than you.

As long as you can be a “Coach to Yourself”, including the Coaches I have trained, you will succeed. First of all, know this in every step you take and take action by loving yourself in all circumstances. Recall that you are at the center of the wheel of life, and that your relationship with yourself, your family, your friends, your relationship with your job, and money are not more important than anyone else’s. The way you behave in a particular way, your look, your sleep, your food, your hobbies, your life, etc. value yourself first. Let neither people nor your thoughts bring you down. As long as you look at yourself, give yourself 10 points, and say “I’m fine!“, you can take all your living spaces to 10 points one by one.

Start by reminding yourself of this every day, and I mean every day, then let’s refresh together in this brand new month. I ask you to take paper and pen with you. Yes, you haven’t misread, get pen and paper right away, because now is the right time for satisfaction and change. Questions from me, answers from you…

In order to feel more self-confident, renew the belief you have in your life, and get to a better point in all your relationships, please “Take care” of yourself first! Hear the thoughts in your mind, stop yourself and examine your sentences. Step back to feed your soul, to understand your soul, and thank yourself for all your hard work and effort so far. Appreciate yourself. Honor all your living spaces one by one. Do this no matter what the current situation is. Thank the life you have created and let’s get started.

• Am I really satisfied with my life?
• Where am I now?
• Can I say “I deserve a better life”?
• Are my dreams strong enough?
• Are these dreams really mine?
• What is the life imposed upon me from the outside?
• Where exactly do I want to reach?
• Are the people in the place I’m going really happy with their lives?
• What exactly do I want?
• What exactly don’t I want?
• Is it possible that I have the right not to do things I don’t want to do?
• What kind of mentality should I have for this?

After you answer your questions, take a deep breath in and out. Please consider. Your choices, your life! Are you happy? May TODAY be the beginning where you choose to focus on the beauty of your dreams that will eventually come true, not on the defeats you experience impermanently! If one road is closed, It is so that you can see there is another. Now let’s find that way; impossible is only your consent.

Don’t consent, create opportunity. Create a better plan than you have ever made. You are the only tool you need to reach your goals! You are dreaming of a dream that already belongs to you. Even if this is you, object to whoever says “impossible“. Can you say, I don’t give up because I deserve it?

Object to all the authorities in your living spaces and re-center yourself. It is possible to attain a life where we live without deceiving ourselves, love without being dependent, listen without being defensive, and where do not delay hoping and smiling, asking, and questioning.

Sometimes things make sense when they are done at the time because there is a meaning hidden in every moment. Feel the meaning of this moment. This is that moment! Be assured, this road will not end before you reach “that” point. May it be a day when you wake up to the feeling you feel when you reach “that” point.

Your relationship with you!

Come, let’s get this relationship right first because then you can have relationships in all other areas of your life that you want. When you are renewed, when you are new, everything is different, and your life is renewed, this reality is new only as long as you are a new version of yourself! Coaching is a tool that enables first to renew, then enables people to find out how to renew.

• What would I be like living the life I want to live?
• If I could create that me, what would my first action step be?

How many fixed points of view do I have that limit the dreams I can have? Please list what these are. Do I experience resistance to changing these perspectives within? What it is that I am afraid of? What it is that is holding me back? How does this feeling change right here, right now? How would I feel when this happens? How else can I increase this new feeling in my life?  How else?

• Coaching; is the journey of the path that first leads to success at your core!
• If I had to take one step towards myself, what would that first step be?
• Am I satisfied with myself and my current situation?
• Can I live comfortably with who I really am?
• Do I find myself successful or unsuccessful? How is my relationship with money?
• Do I have enough money?
• Do I think I have the money I need?
• How are my relationships at work?
• How do I find what I do?
• Am I satisfied with my job?
• How are my relationships with my colleagues currently?
• If I had abundant thoughts that support my future, what would they be?
• What knowledge and competencies do I need to take me further?
• How are my relationships in my family life?
• When I talk about my family, how do I talk about them?
• Do I make time for my family?
• How does the time I spend in my relationships with my family make me feel?
• What are my current problems?
• Does my family support me?
• How are my relationships with my friends?
• Can I be the real me in my relationships with my friends?
• When I spend time with my friends, does it make me happy?
• Do I have friends who support me in my life?
• How am I like with friends who don’t support me?
• How are my current communications in my relationships?
• Can I express myself easily?
• Can the people around me easily express themselves in their communication with me?
• Can I establish healthy communication in my life?

What sentences that I feel, say, evoke, and hear would I like to generate in my living spaces?

Relationships are one of the universe’s gifts to you. The most important relationship is the one we have with ourselves. When we love ourselves, we begin to be better and make better. When we love ourselves, we become the most enjoyable individuals to spend time with.

How has your answer to all the questions influenced your life?

For those who realize and decide with coaching, there is only joy on the way to progress. There will be those who will answer the questions with “I don’t know“. What should you do to know?

Now, make time for yourself. Realize the beauty of change in the moment and take the book “THE FUTURE STARTS TODAY” in your hands. Turn to page 91 and continue the journey with me. Remember that my voice is always in your ear, my hand is on your shoulder and I am with you in every line you read.

If you want to be an inspiration with what you share, you can share the question that affected you the most in this blog post, maybe that made you experience an “A HA!” moment of awareness, and maybe that enabled you to find a solution to your predicament, by tagging our book and me. You can be instrumental in helping more people experience the experience you have had, because the more happy people there are, the more we can create a happy world that is worth living in. Let’s do this together in this new month, starting with ourselves.

May September be a month when we all become happier people and create an even happier world.

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